Workplace giving people voice could love, both expect a difference in the work, the cruelty and fear and all sorts of workplace rules, an inattentive to bust out. In fact, elements in the workplace, emotional (EQ) training is the key, really good professional who is not without feelings of wood, but use of emotion to achieve goals of smart people.
So, only two roads in the workplace:
Edge impingement edge exploration; be bought may not be wisdom.
Or look at "work is actually very simple," get all easy.
"Work is very simple," Dr. Zhang Junyi is a career with the "hearts and minds technique." The book describes how the attack is the owner of the hearts of employees, the staff supervisor of the heart attack, the company's heart attack customers, and more cases, each person his heart attack.
This is not abstract speculation, but on psychological science, physical structure and thousands of big business on the global basis of Investigation, the topics related to all aspects of the workplace, detailed and precise, vivid and humorous language quite penetrating. Do not believe, please read on.
Work is fun fun at work, really possible? Ah, wait, let Zhang Junyi we share a wonderful story in Paris.
A few years ago, she went to Paris to participate in seminars, but because the meeting is not in the hotel she was staying, saw the map of a long time, there is no sense of direction, she is still scratching their clue, only to resort to service personnel on duty.
The service is a five or six-year-old old man, I can see where he did quite some time, his face has a rare smile French, he was graceful to spread out the map, write down a tremendous amount path instructions, and took her to the door, and then a gesture toward the direction of the road.
Indifference standard had recognized the "French Service", but also can have such a charming, warm side. She can not help but to play in his mind a big exclamation point.
Thank the occasion of the farewell, and he smiled politely respond: "You're welcome, ma'am, I wish you to find the venue very well." Then he added: "I believe you will be very satisfied with the services that restaurant, because there Waiter is my apprentice! "
"Great!" She laughed, "did not think you have apprentice!"
The old man a smile more brilliant: "Yes ah, twenty five years, the work I've done twenty-five years, had numerous disciples to teach, to ensure that all of them are first-class professional." Speech stream showing infinite pride.
She can not help but stop and ask him the secret of happy work.
The old man replied: "I always thought that someone lives in a positive influence, is a very fun thing, so that every visitor to Paris, tourists have a very happy holiday, this is not very very happy? think about it, my job is so important to many foreign tourists because of me, and have a good impression of Paris. "
"So secretly tell you that my real title is 'foreign ministers in Paris underground'!" He blinked his eyes, said with a smile.
Beautiful! This is really to understand the true meaning of work and happy in the EQ master!
Work to understand what their music in terms of psychological passwords at work, is to give psychological meaning, to increase motivation. Psychologists have found that a person's job satisfaction, and He says that he feels the work is meaningful, has a great relationship, and the value of the work is entirely the work is to give you my definition.
If a person considers that the work is "time spent in exchange for money" activities, I am afraid not yet begun to work, to have that dull tired, emotional work destined to become slaves.
However, if you can find the true meaning of labor work, give it a deep psychological meaning, for example: "My job allows me to keep learning and to establish a deep friendship", will be able to act beyond the definition of tasks, and to find out " Why We Fight, "the driving force, working together on the great interest of course.
When you have a good answer, we will not repeat "for the job, but not replace your mood," the tragedy; even, you will be surprised to find that he need not change jobs, you can make feel brand new.
Work for money and not the meaning of work for the money should be the same, the truth is that even if we do not have hundreds of millions into the bag, there should also be working as a general mood of hundreds of millions, that is, you and I do not have to first prize in the lottery, as happy as can be to work as a billionaire.
Psychological study found that, EQ expert in answering "why do" the problem, first came out, the answer is always "interested in is necessary!" Regardless of the content of their work is word processing, business negotiations, or the creative development. In other words, they deeply understand that "to do for fun, not for the money to do" the truth, and have felt happy in their work capacity.
This does not mean they do not need money, or love of money (in fact, most people need to earn money by working for a living, right), master EQ is smart to know that when we focus on the work of having fun , not only do the more the more interesting and more to do more dynamic, better performance, of course, are more likely to make more money more.
On the contrary, if the mood on the day bears "for the money to do" the heavy cross, once encountered a sign of trouble, it is easy to fall into the "I'm helpless," the anxiety among both lost on the mood and ruin performance, it will probably farther and farther away from the large sums of money.
