Confusion new workplace: how to get rid of "flattering" the suspect?
There is a saying called "Parents can not choose, but the husband can choose", this sentence applies to the workplace can be changed to "career choice, but my colleagues can not choose." When you have five hurdles will be a favorite post, with full confidence for a big fight, perhaps you will find God, how would there be in my office so my colleagues.
As an outsider, the audience was able to read and understand, who do not have the kind of tortured, repressed career feel it? For example:
Love peacocks in full display
Almost all know a secret to a peacock, that is, a piece of cloth shake in front of the peacock, peacock's tail and will conduct their own Bimei you. In the office there are some kind of "love peacocks in full display" - feel good about themselves, regardless of time and place to show off.
B has such a small office a "love peacocks in full display," as long as new or stranger, he taken the trouble to introduce their experience, who was then seen, have worked with so and so, how highly the leadership their work and so on, until the other awe so far.Small B When I first came Shihai colleagues for their proud of such a long time and found again and again that he was always a "speech the word" almost all his back before. Look around my colleagues, and every time his speech or flee, or call to chat, or banging packed my things up in protest, and only scattered who Zunxiong spittle, forever.
Zhanxiaopianyi small head
"Some of the grassroots sector, small head can be really difficult to deal with!" Little C said with deep feeling. His love Zhanxiaopianyi director is the guy, the general welfare of the company to employees sent to him this level until the lower collar of the movie tickets, vouchers or something all the reasons he is often "forget" the. Sometimes understatement to say hello, hope to get away more often omitted. The most angry is to small C such a thing. Chinese New Year, the small C behalf of the company to open a cooperative unit party, at a raffle, a small C fortunate to be able to get a prize - a refrigerator. This award is well aware of the small C should belong to the company, put up their own inappropriate, give director called and ask for instructions how to deal with. Officers rushed to the scene as quickly as possible, Zhizou a small C, straight to the refrigerator carried back to their home! The next day, still smiling, patted the shoulders of a small C: "Boy, I'm Feeling Lucky! Next time such activities are also send you to! "small C gas almost fainted!
Pseudo behavior among girls
This seems to be female comrade "patent." Count on a pretty small, love to fully display in front of male colleagues, " female charm ", but unexpectedly became a female colleague and a thorn in their jokes. "Company of a new clerk, waist round Tuicu, but like to wear mini-skirts, and male colleagues to speak childish, people listen to one, from a goose bumps." 28-year-old advertising company, said the United States compiled a small D, "Her fate was not much good nature, in the office almost no attention to her female staff."
There are a small D before colleagues, clearly Banlaoxuniang, and they always deliberately dressed up like the little girl, wearing a bubble skirt, leaving doll head, spoke at every turn is, "We girls how to ... ... "we also like to tell people they have a 12-year-old daughter, took to the streets was often mistaken for sisters, people exclaimed:" Ah! do you look a little girl, how could 12-year-old daughter! " she is innocent and meet girls like to do laugh, but she did not know he had become the laughing stock!
Eyes upward, "lackey"
This number of people do not even pay attention to the same level with the lower contacts of my colleagues, always waiting for an opportunity to capture any of those in power, to make himself the opportunity to ask for the moon. Downwards, which is a common mentality, but if overdone, "lackey" of the nickname is probably no escape.
"Several colleagues in our department has been working lunch together, in addition to a man named Hua Lu, and every time she is always sitting aloof in a corner." 25-year-old small-E foreign executive secretary said, "One day, the company vice president come to the restaurant and dine with us, Hua Lu sharp-eyed, flew pushed to our side, but also desperately chipped, it is nauseating to vice president touted young and promising. want to come first, want to create a 'loner' good impression, and second, and vice president have the opportunity to set a close. disgusting! "
Higher than the days of hate, "Du"
Bitter and angry, these are the "Du" are the most significant features. Although occasionally some "heart to heart," the complaint to build out a number of "office friendship," the illusion of endless complaints, but rain will make the people around miserable, depressed because they own a clone.
"And I am a project manager for the same department as long as the one in the office, we can not escape from the long hours of mental torture. "G is 24-year-old director of a company's customers," obviously is independent of these and their own things can be in her under continuous bombardment, we have tried every means to get rid of her negative emotions very contagious. Maybe she complained as a way to open, but the complaint will appeal to the end of the sublimation into anger. We wonder since she is so unhappy with the status quo, why not just change the environment, far away. but also save her extremely wronged, and we suffer along! "
Tireless trumpet
Some minor style in the workplace harmless joke, but to alert them to develop into a formidable gossip or even hurtful rumors. Do not know how many people think twice before speaking all kinds of rumors fueled by the unwitting person. "One of my colleagues always talk at length about something all right to my desk, director of the 'scandal' that you want, so sensitive place, then the sensitive topic, I do not know what to do really makes." 29-year-old H complained that "the reliability of her sources, I will not speak, she does not care about me in that laundry list of her" "the insider Confidential 'flu is not interested!"
More than 6 class office "no longer tolerate the matter" could be considered "major" in the "cardinal", in fact, and then think about it, not really "cardinal" level of "small non-" is dime a dozen.
But said so many bad things about my colleagues, I believe my colleagues also full of the complaints I have had, or not say. People like this, like the porcupine, as would be lonely without companion, now conspire together and tie each other up fast enough. Since the husband to choose from, but my colleagues can not be selected, then only the patient, pay attention to the defense and the appropriate counter.
