The term dry female rage, and the existence of the modern city woman
typical of many dry "dry woman" from the word on Japan's first comic
Pu Wu, "cocoon of light" which the actress Amemiya firefly describe
life, if it is to generalize, generally escape the "three no's" and "a
quest", that does not go out without make-up do not get married, the
pursuit of lazy quiet life.
Living in the city for women , perhaps we who are more or less hidden
several of the "dry female" traits, such as at home, wearing a loose
movement of elastic fabric; often bored at work, but there is no way
to escape from ; often take the "trouble is dead", "casual friends" as
a mantra. So, talk about "dry girl", first we need to define are: the
appearance of things is not wrong, black or white, "dry woman" is not
too bad, rough, but not the warmth of the negative pronoun.
It is a neutral concept.
A B-type character and personality
"Appears 'dry female' state of man, the pressure is relatively large,
they are in their third of an acre of ground, in their own enclosed
space, in order to achieve decompression purposes. If the state is
slight, it belong to a way of relaxing, and it is more generally
choose love the way the girls quiet. "Yi Peng consultant it
categorically divided into two directions," In fact, 'dry female'
character formation combination with the pressure. If the individual
within the original, I can understand it as a way to relax, as long as
it does not affect my social function; if the original outgoing
personality, there has been 'dry female' the silent state, it would
have to consider whether there psychological issues. "
Dry women "means: the larger the pressure, withdrawal of the interpersonal mode.
Assuming the oil will run out of the home, the bucket in less than 1 /
3 of the stock, you will choose to buy instantly at home and spare
barrel, or to wait for the oil run out, go to the supermarket to buy?
If you chose the former, you might be A-type character, while the
latter choice is the B-type echoes your personality traits. Here,
A-and B-type does not refer to the different blood types, the first is
from a medical investigation of coronary heart disease, coronary heart
disease that is type-A personality, and they are anxious strong sense
of competition, for to face pressure for perfection of things; and
B-type personality, medically speaking, is not susceptible to coronary
heart disease, because they are easier to achieve the state of slow
life, moon flowers, tea ... ... However, they is easy to escape the
pressure of the crowd.
Everyone is a pressure tank
In fact, each of us is a pressure tank, family stress, marital stress,
job stress, interpersonal stress, studies stress, job pressure, all
the species distribution of the pressure around us. Therefore, the
taboo about the existence of stress is unrealistic; Instead, pay
attention to the pressure from time to time to clean the edge of the
dirt in order to ensure the pressure tank will not eventually become a
pressure cooker.
Although the method has limited women's relief, can not, as men
generally head, wanton indulgence, however, psychological experts do
not recommend "dry female" status as the decompression method.
Because, shut ourselves in a small space, the vacuum of space in the
self-construction, which is like gas in a vacuum inside, even if your
aura is transparent, less inevitably out of the export and cracks,
Over time, sit alone, lying, laughing, talking, less the opposite of
the response object, will make its further decline in social
functioning, and even decline. As social beings, there must be
friction between people, collisions, even if it is tongue
contradiction. Moreover, there are some "dry woman" has always been
out of hiding to escape the interpersonal pressure to others to stay
in the "dry" housing.
For women, the best way decompression: talk, which may be taken into
account women's emotional characteristics, and they are more likely
than men to seek emotional resonance of the reasons. Of course, the
movement slow pressure relaxation music may well be a decompression of
the medicine. The most critical is that when we are in the heart
fatigue, lack of energy on the critical point, if we are not persuaded
to give himself a leader of a loose, free leave, must be in the range
of their small environment, try to re- picked up the small child,
watched the sky, blue-color material share of the state of mind.
