A considerable part of modern life, people unknowingly allow others to
grasp and control the play of " mental slavery "role, they work in
their own hate, do not like living in the environment, doing things
against their will ... ... The following describes the specific
"mental slaves" of the 5 types and control methods.
"What others think," the slaves of this "mental slavery" the most
common, creativity and personality of the most destructive, more
common in psychological immaturity of the people. "I talk too much,
people will think I'm pushy," "I do that, people will laugh at me" ...
... this "other" type of thinking to become "other people" mentality
of slaves. Much of this "mental slavery" but also to listen to the
advice of people who are not qualified, it would seriously affect
their creativity.
Countermeasures:
① If you feel happy after the imitation of others, we might try to
imitate. Otherwise, you should go their own way of life.
② rationally face the new light of others, criticize, because the
higher the position, as the chat was more chance of the object, the
chance to be more critical.
③ and brave, helpful, like-minded people to do friends .
"Doomed to failure," the slaves of this type of "mental slavery" lack
of self-awareness that he is very small and can not really see myself.
They often complain that "I do not have a good opportunity," "I will
fail," "the people around me are against," "leadership does not value
me" ... ... In fact, thinking about themselves that things can be when
a person wants How, he really will become like that.
Countermeasures:
① often use a good, positive, constructive vocabulary implying that he
will enhance self-confidence. As possible from the usual "why can do"
of sake, and not focus on "why can not do" spin.
② mind always thinking "I will be successful," "I am a winner," which
will enhance the will to win, and trying to find all kinds of
"contribute to the successful" approach.
"Too late" slaves of this "mental slavery" is usually considered to be
a certain age to do something when the situation. For instance, some
think they missed a good opportunity, now a dilemma, riding a tiger,
had resigned. Some think they have too much 26 years old can not go on
to college studies, and some think that their 40-year-old, unable to
remarry.
Countermeasures:
① Do not care about age limits, and from life to find fresh example.
② not perfunctory. A planned, systematic efforts toward their own ideals.
"Security" Many people would rather eat a slave "iron rice bowl" do
not want to reform, which is a typical "security" slaves. Lack of
imagination is the "security" slave psychological characteristics in
common. In fact, risk is an objective reality, human survival,
development, and is a constant struggle, continue the process to
eliminate the sense of insecurity.
Countermeasures:
① make life more colorful, vivid and dramatic.
② will have to climb because there are risks, difficulties will have a
breakthrough, the pressure will have to rise, there will be a rough
fight. So to learn to face difficulties and rare, the unknown.
"Past mistakes" being a slave mind control failures of the past
trauma, fear that any new attempt is the main feature, once bitten,
twice shy. They are frustrated because of failure, do not know how
lessons learned from failures. "Past mistakes" of the slaves will
damage a person's ability to explore, people hesitate.
Countermeasures:
① will fail as an investment, do not think it is lost. Some people say
that Edison to create the first practical light bulb failed 9999
times, but he thinks he found the 9999 kinds of methods can not be
applied.
② If the error in time to discern, it simply can not be wrong.
