More recently, called "scolded Baby" The rise of services on the
Internet, shopkeepers name of "helping people vent" slogan, introduced
a number of "scolded services", and to ensure "reviled, reviled not."
Experts point out that, "scolded services" is not rationally
desirable, decompression has to go professional road.
Reviled, reviled not: "scolded service" Internet sensation "Taobao
scolded stores, 1.5 per as you curse, relieve stress, resolve
trouble." This is Xiaowei shop in Taobao launched a new service -
"scolded Baby. " Customer photographed this baby, you can by Wang
Wang, QQ, telephone and other means curse, charges of "cursing 10
minutes 1 dollar," the owner to ensure that reviled, reviled not. If
there are other unique needs of the guests, the owner will be charged
as appropriate, up to 10 yuan per minute.
"Not long ago, and friends a whole, particularly the pressure that
young people today feel that this 'scolded service' is a business
opportunity to make up. "Xiaowei told reporters that the current"
scolded Baby "has been in Taobao more than 400, his shop, "scolded
Baby" is only "new to the road", at most, are "amateur."
Longer periods of time in several shop, "scolded Shop", the reporter
found that the services provided by the owner is very comprehensive:
Professional enlighten, full of psychological counseling: 50 yuan per
hour; to listen to any thoughts, advice given to friends as: 30 per
hour element; normal chat with friends, really talk: 20 yuan per hour.
In addition, there are some really ridiculous "special rule": If you
meet the requirements of the owner, a tendency to form name calling,
or require the owner pretending to weak side, then every 10 minutes 2
million. However, some shop also particular that, "scolded service,"
the bottom line: the owner's parents are not allowed to curse.
A shopkeeper told reporters that he started the auction last month,
"curse services", has sold more than 1,000 so far. Some journalists
feel free to browse top-ranking "scolded shop" and found a
considerable number of transactions, and some stores even the purchase
of a large single pen 200.
Virtual Father: vent into the main channel of the network with the
quickening pace of society, people living stress will rise. In fact,
the Father of Western religion that has been providing a professional
services: personal crime, marriage , unfortunately, less resentment
... ... people can talk to the priest. Clergy dressed in black and
compared to those in China, like a virtual network of priests, as many
important way to give vent to talk.
Baidu in the search site, enter "vent sites" to query, display 25.9
million related to the content. Vent network, curse mesh, punching bag
... ... in these sorts of sites, users can post free to vent their
emotions indiscriminately, some take way to pay.
In addition to vent sites, flash games are also popular white-collar
workers to vent all ages. "Kuangchou boyfriend", "office worker
killer" and other popular games to vent the network. The "white-collar
workers killer" popularity is as high as 125,095, a half score of
four-star (the highest five-star).
Temporary solution: a huge relief to go the road of professionalism in
the face of pressure, why so many people do not choose a professional
psychological counseling, choosing instead to "scolded service" means
to vent pressure or network?
Provide "scolded service" Xiao said the owner of qq whiz, received his
first "scolded" business, the other is a white-collar workers to buy a
20-minute service. "In the beginning, when he angrily cursed, then
slowly began to calm down and talk." Qq wind Xiao told reporters:
"Many white-collar workers under tremendous pressure, but not friends
and family say, and 'scolded service' has become They vent channels
play a role in mitigation and talk. "
"In the cold to see a psychiatrist like to see as normal, but in
China, if you see a psychiatrist, may provoke strange eyes." Hunan
Normal University Public Management School of Applied Psychology,
Professor Xiao Hanshi analysis, due to the shackles of social
attitudes Many people do not want to face professional psychological
counseling, and the anonymity of the Internet gives them enough
security.
In addition, the data show that in April of this year: China through
the formal, professional training, psychological counseling more than
6,000 professionals only, and the present of various mental and
psychological disorders in patients with up to 1600 million.
Xiaohan Shi said: "'scolded service' is only a last resort option,
this approach can not achieve the effect a permanent cure, not a
desirable way of reason." He believes that to solve this problem, or
to go the road of professionalism: on the one hand country To train
more professionals, other individuals have to learn self-regulation,
good mental health .
